Showing posts with label Musings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Musings. Show all posts

Monday, December 1, 2008

Scars...

I have many people I admire from afar who are doing what I would love to do. One of my favorites is Tina Fey. She is a writer, a humorous one at that. I thought it was the greatest thing to see her become the first woman to head the SNL writing team. It was even better to see her foray into the movies with Mean Girls as she wrote the screenplay. As a political junkie, she recently cracked me up with her impersonations of Sarah Palin. She was so dead-on that it was hilarious to watch.

Because of my admiration, stories about her usually catch my attention. One recent story of Tina Fey touched me. I had always wondered about the scar on her face, but never paid too much attention as I was usually cracking up with her humor. In a recent interview, her husband revealed the scar’s origins.

I found this fascinating because her scar is there for all the world to see. Many people have scars that are internal which we will never see but are there under the surface. Like hers, the scar eventually heals but it is sometimes present.

It’s the scars that people don’t see that shape us into the people we are today. If you could see into the inner depths of a person and if the internal scars were visible, you would see a picture that would be one-of-a-kind. From the million little scars to the big ones that are penetrating and deep. It would be like walking through a museum with each person an artistic rendering because of their scars.

Scars to me mean survival and healing. Each one – whether we can see it or not – represents a time and a place, a story. Sometimes we tell these stories because we have scars on the outside such as hers. Other times we don’t because we are the only ones who know our story and our scars are not easily noticeable. For all the times Tina Fey has made me laugh, today she made me think much deeper about my scars – both external and internal.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Why a Radio Commercial Impacted Me...

As I drove to work, I heard a radio commercial that caught my attention. The announcer was asking if you were a female who took care of yourself. He asked -- are you a nonsmoker, did you exercise, do you take care of yourself. I was thinking yeah, yeah, yeah, I am what you are looking for. Mind you, I rarely get suckered in but this morning I was suckered in.

Then, the announcer says we are looking for single women. I'm thinking I'm one of these. He goes on -- single women who are healthy, non-smokers, blah, blah, blah. Next he says (here is the clincher) -- women in between the ages of 21 to 32 who would like to donate their eggs so couples can have an opportunity to have children.

When I heard this "age requirement," I caca'd in my pants. What -- I don't qualify because of one measly birthday? All of a sudden my huevos are not good enough to help a couple out.

Mind you, I have never really cared about my slowly, shriveling huevos until right that split second. That freakin radio commercial!

I immediately called a married friend and told her about my epiphany. She laughed at me because it's unlike me to think about my huevos. I guess I always thought they'd be there until I was ready.